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Monday, March 28, 2022

202 When the Going Gets Weird

    (Note: This blog entry is based on the text for “When the Going Gets Weird”, originally shared on March 28, 2022. It was the 202nd video for our YouTube Channel, Streams of Living Water (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCB7KnYS1bpHKaL2OseQWCnw), co-produced with my wife, Rev. Sally Welch.)

   What’s the weirdest celebration you’ve ever attended? Today, we’re going to look at one that Jesus attended that I’m pretty sure was even weirder, including the part that might make a reality TV star blush.

   What would you do if Jesus came to your house for dinner? Kind of crazy, right? What if one of the guests was your sister, between you and whom Jesus had recently settled a work-related issue? What if another of the guests was your brother, who Jesus had recently raised from the dead?

   Does that strike you as weird? Well, when the going gets weird, the weird get going.

   Would it occur to you to wash Jesus’ feet with $37,200.00 worth of perfume, and then dry them with your hair?

   Well, that’s exactly what happened. We see it in John 12:1-3,

12 Six days before the Passover Jesus came to Bethany, the home of Lazarus, whom he had raised from the dead. There they gave a dinner for him. Martha served, and Lazarus was one of those at the table with him. Mary took a pound of costly perfume made of pure nard, anointed Jesus’ feet, and wiped them with her hair. The house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.

   What’s going on?

   Jesus has come to Bethany, a little town just about 2 miles over the Mt. of Olives from Jerusalem. He’s with some of his best friends, siblings Mary and Martha and Lazarus.

   All four Gospel writers tell this story in slightly different ways. We’re looking at the one in John today.

   Mary and Martha you might remember from Luke 10:38-42 where Jesus and the 12 hungry disciples come by their and Lazarus’ home. Martha gets to work to feed them all. She complains to Jesus that Mary isn’t helping her but instead is sitting at Jesus’ feet, i.e., listening to and learning from him. The story concludes with Luke 10:41-42,

41 But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and distracted by many things; 42 there is need of only one thing. Mary has chosen the better part, which will not be taken away from her.”

   Lazarus you might remember from John 11:1-44, where Jesus has mysteriously lingered during Lazarus’ illness and Lazarus has died. He’s been dead for three days when Jesus arrives at Bethany and Mary tells him that if he had been there Lazarus would not have died. Jesus weeps. He orders the stone to be rolled away from Lazarus’ tomb. Then, we read in John 11:43-44,

43 When he had said this, he cried with a loud voice, “Lazarus, come out!” 44 The dead man came out, his hands and feet bound with strips of cloth, and his face wrapped in a cloth. Jesus said to them, “Unbind him, and let him go.”

   Now, just a few days later, Jesus is with them in their home, at what appears to be Jesus’ favorite place on earth. These were his close friend who were not among his close disciples. We have no record of him teaching publicly there. He just came there to relax and hang out with people who loved him and who he loves.

   Mary and Martha and Lazarus appear to be having a celebratory meal with the 12 close disciples of Jesus, with what Leonard Sweet calls, “Food. Family. Friends. Fragrance.”

   Fragrance is associated with the sense of smell that can help us identify things, feel things, sharpen our concentration or dull it, heal us and produce desired outcomes. It can also be a time machine.

   When I smell raspberries, I’m back in my father’s parents’ garden. When I smell geraniums, I’m back in mother’s parents’ back yard.

   Fragrance has long been used in worship. We filled the church I served in San Dimas with incense on Wednesday nights. When it was first proposed and concerns were raised about people with allergies, a physician’s assistant in the congregation told us that incense was one of the treatments for certain kinds of allergies.

   Mary used a pound of a perfume that was extravagantly expensive and powerful to anoint Jesus’ feet. Its fragrance didn’t just fill the room. It filled the house!

   Well, what would you have done in gratitude for the life of your brother? How grateful would you be? What would you give in exchange for 15 more minutes with your parents, or a friend or a loved one?

   Seen in that context, it doesn’t seem so extravagant, does it?

   After she had used it to anoint Jesus’ feet, she dried them with her hair. Women didn’t let their hair down anywhere but in front of their husbands.

   Mary anoints the feet of Jesus as a sign of service and dries them with her hair as a sign of humility.

   She uses a perfume more properly called “spikenard”, which was native to North India and imported in sealed alabaster boxes. The perfume, we find out later, is worth 300 denarii.

   “Denarii” is the plural form of “denarius”. A denarius was the daily wage of an unskilled laborer. So, if we take today’s minimum hourly wage of $15.50 and multiply it by 8 hours for a day’s work, we get $124, or the near equivalent of one denarius. Multiply that by 300 and we get $37,200.00. That’s almost a year’s wages, as the 52 sabbath days would have been taken off!

   The thing is that we will all be united someday. And it didn’t cost $37,200.00 a pound to get that. It cost something much more precious. It cost the blood of Jesus, poured out for the sake of the world on the cross!

   How do we show our gratitude, not only for our lives but for our eternal lives? Jesus says this about life lived in response to the love of God poured out for us on the cross, in Mark 8:34-37,

34 He called the crowd with his disciples, and said to them, “If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. 35 For those who want to save their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake, and for the sake of the gospel, will save it. 36 For what will it profit them to gain the whole world and forfeit their life? 37 Indeed, what can they give in return for their life? 

   Nothing. There is nothing we can give in return for our lives, nothing we can do to earn our salvation. It is purely a gift from God.

   How can we then live in response to that gift?

   First, by recognizing that we are in the world, but we are not of the world. We’re going to seem weird to the world.

   Second, by listening to the presence of the Holy Spirit within us, in whom no weird thing is weird.

   Third, that God decides what is weird and what is not weird, that God is reality revealed to us by the Holy Spirit to experience life-transformation, and to live abundant lives by God’s direction, by God’s grace.

   That is, when the going gets weird in life, the weird get going by God’s grace.



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