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Wednesday, May 14, 2025

359 True Love

   (Note: This blog entry is based on the text for “True Love”, originally shared on May 14, 2025. It was the 359th  video for our YouTube Channel, Streams of Living Water (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCB7KnYS1bpHKaL2OseQWCnw), co-produced with my wife, Rev. Sally Welch.)

   What is true love? It’s nothing that the world can prepare us for, and today we’re going to find out what it is.

    The world spoke Latin briefly last week: “Habemus papam”. Or, “We have a pope”.

   Pope Leo XIV, the newly elected leader of the Roman Catholic Church, is the first pope born in the United States, and the first pope of the Augustinian Order.

   I once read that one of the strengths of the Roman Catholic Church is that it has a variety of religious orders where there can be diverse approaches to being Roman Catholic, while maintaining unity within the Roman Catholic Church. There are Franciscans, Benedictines, Jesuits, Dominicans, Carmelites, Augustinians, and so on. But there has never before been an Augustinian pope.

   How will being an Augustinian influence Pope Leo’s approach to the work of the Roman Catholic Church?

   I read a post on Facebook by Clinton Sensat in the days after Pope Leo’s election that said, “These are all over-simplifications, but if Franciscans find God in nature, Dominicans in study, and Carmelites in prayer, Augustinians find God in community.”  

   Augustine of Hippo (a city in North Africa), aka St. Augustine, who lived from 354 A.D. to 430 A. D., who nominally founded the Augustinian order, is well known to Catholics as well as to Protestants and to people of other religions and to people with no religion at all for his influence on Western as well as World Civilization. Many people read his works, “Confessions” or “City of God” as part of world history courses in high school or college.

   You may also be familiar with an Augustinian monk who had some influence on the world: Martin Luther, the 16th Century Church reformer who protested against the abuses of the Roman Catholic Church of his day and so became the world’s first Protestant.

   I admit that I have never thought much about how my being a Lutheran, influenced by Martin Luther as an Augustinian, has influenced my understanding of being a Christian.

   But I have grown to see the fundamental nature of Christianity as being built on relationship. Our relationship with God is the expression of our faith, and the expression of that relationship is seen in how we treat one another.

   And what are our Christian communities but parts of the Christians Church, the whole body of Christ bound together across time?

   And what are those communities, but visible and active expressions of our relationship with the one true living God, that is, of love? (More about that in a minute.)

   And what is that love, but a very specific kind of love, what the original Greek language of the Bible calls “agape”, or selfless love. The kind of love that is the very nature of God, the love with which God loves us, the love that that can only come from God? Agape.

   In fact, this love is at the heart of the Gospel lesson that will be read in the vast majority of churches in the world this coming Sunday.

   But if it sounds like you’ve heard it not too long ago, you probably have. It was read in churches on Maundy Thursday, just about 4 weeks ago, on the night marking the night in which Jesus was betrayed, and then tortured, and executed three days before he took his life back again on Easter Sunday, John 13:31-35,

31 When he had gone out, Jesus said, “Now the Son of Man has been glorified, and God has been glorified in him. 32 If God has been glorified in him, God will also glorify him in himself and will glorify him at once. 33 Little children, I am with you only a little longer. You will look for me; and as I said to the Jews so now I say to you, ‘Where I am going, you cannot come.’ 34 I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”

   So why are we hearing this text again, and so soon?

   I think it’s because the love that Jesus spoke of looks different to us on our side of the Resurrection.

   Before Jesus gave his life for us and then took it back again to show us that he was God, the emphasis was on Jesus’ words, ‘Where I am going, you cannot come.” Jesus was announcing to his disciples that he would soon die.

   But, after the Resurrection, when Jesus took his life back again, the emphasis is now on how we live: we embody his love for us in our love for one another.  

   We live in two relationships of love.

   First, we live in the love that God has for us, shown most plainly on the cross. Jesus said to Nicodemus in John 3:16,

16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life.

   Second, we live in response to that love through Christian community. We believe that the risen Christ is present among us today. Jesus said in Matthew 18:20,

20 For where two or three are gathered in my name, I am there among them.”

   What do we need in order to have a relationship with God? At least two or three. Jesus is present when at least two or three people are gathered in that living relationship, in Jesus name.

   To be gathered in Jesus’ name is not to use the name of Jesus as a magic word to get what we want. It means to be gathered in his reality, his true self. It is transformational.

   And a community only requires two people. I think that that is because two is the minimum number of people needed for a relationship. Like the HOV lane on the freeway, the “High-occupancy Vehicle” lane. Two is the smallest number greater than one, but that’s considered high occupancy in L.A. and it makes a community in the Christian Church.

   Like religious orders in the Roman Catholic Church, Christian churches provide the opportunities for a diverse people to find diverse expressions of God’s presence.

   And what does God’s presence among us mean? Love. It is transformational love. It is God’s nature, and God’s nature is what defines us as Christian communities.

   This is why Jesus says, at the end of our Gospel reading for this coming Sunday, in John 13:35,

35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”

   Back in the days of what some refer to as “The Great Folk Music Scare” of the early/mid- ‘60’s (😊), one of the songs every Christian youth group sang was “They Will Know We are Christians by our Love”.

   I would bet that some of us of that era could still sing it. It has been said that a folk song is a song that a group of people can sing from memory, and I know that many of us could do it.

   There were four verses and one chorus. Though, when Contemporary Christian Music supergroup “Jars of Clay” recorded it, they only included two verses, oddly.

   The first verse went

We are one in the Spirit, we are one in the Lord;
We are one in the Spirit, we are one in the Lord;
And we pray that all unity will one day be restored.
   The next verses are about spreading the news of the presence of God, guarding human dignity and pride, and praising the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit.
   And in between the verses was the chorus,

And they'll know we are Christians by our love, by our love,
yes, they'll know we are Christians by our love.

   We sang that song in a minor key, and we were serious, and earnest, and a little bit ominous in our delivery.

   And then the Lutherans got involved.

   Well, some Lutherans pointed out that the world must know us by our Lord before it knows us by our love for one another. And that, I believe, is exactly what Jesus is saying in our Gospel reading for this coming Sunday, John 13:31-35.

   It’s about true love. It’s the nature of the whole Body of Christ, the Church, because it comes from God. It is what John describes in 1 John 4:16,

16 So we have known and believe the love that God has for us.

God is love, and those who abide in love abide in God, and God abides in them.

   But is this what the world sees in Christians. Most of the time I think that the answer would be “Yes”, but not always.

   Nowhere is this seen more clearly today than in the war in Ukraine.

   The dominant religious group in Ukraine was the Russian Orthodox Church.

   When Russia started the war, seventy percent of the people of Russia were Russian Orthodox, and seventy-one percent of the people of Ukraine were Russian Orthodox.

   The head of the Russian Orthodox Church in Russia declared it a holy war. The Russian Orthodox in Ukraine said, “Wait a minute! We’re the innocent victims here.”

   Church members in both Russia and Ukraine were, and I hope continue to be, upset about this declaration. The depth of the evil that people can inflict on each other is on full display. Christians are killing Christians, and for what?

   What witness can we give to the world when we in the Body of Christ are to be known for our love for one another but instead are killing one another in a war?

   The plain fact is that human beings are a mess. We have always been a mess. We are sinners. We sin, we separate ourselves from God. We follow our own paths without God.

   We can make no claim for a righteousness of our own.

   Our only witness to the world is the cross, that Jesus gave his life for we sinners, and then took it back again in the Resurrection to validate the power of the cross.

   Christ has died. Christ is Risen. Christ will come again. The mystery of our faith is not a “mystery” in the sense that it’s a problem to be solved but is that it’s beyond our understanding.   

   The love of God is a gift from God that comes, and can only come, from God, and it comes while we are still sinners.

   I shared a meme near Maundy Thursday one year that showed an angry dog captioned, “Me when Barabbas is freed instead of Jesus.” and a picture of the same dog “smiling” and captioned, “Me when I realize Barabbas is me…”

   How does the love of God come to a sinful humanity? Not from the East or from the West, or from the North or from the South. It comes from above. It comes from God, in the power of the Holy Spirit, through Jesus, who was fully the one true living God and fully a human being: True Love.

   Yes, the new pope is the first member of the Roman Catholic Augustinian order to be pope.

   But I saw a meme online that showed a portrait of Martin Luther, and under it was written: “Still my favorite Augustinian.” 😊

   Christian communities are also human communities. We are, as Martin Luther said, “at the same time saint and sinner.”

   But we are also a new creation, transformed, born again. How do we live the Christian life without becoming bitter by the lack of love we sometimes see in the Christian community and even see in ourselves?

   I think that part of the answer is given in that Gospel reading we are sharing from John this week. Jesus makes this statement in the immediate context of being betrayed by a very close member of his community: Judas. What is Jesus’ response? He focuses on what that community is called to be in the selfless love he has shown them, and will show them on the cross, and now calls them, and us, to live.

   He shows us how to focus on the transformed life that the faithful community is called to live in themselves, among themselves, and in the world, to allow the presence of the Holy Spirit to lead them to get better, and not bitter. To live by the selfless love of God.

   We don’t point to ourselves. We’re sinners. We point to Jesus, to the forgiveness and grace that we strive to embody, and to the greatness of his selfless love.

   That is the good news that points to the relationship for which we were created, and the Christian community in which we live it.

   All we can do is to receive it and to share the good news of the true love of God that never disappoints us but builds us up together in the Body of Christ. 



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